Why would my W break into my phone and read my messages if she doesn't love me and wants me to move on? I posted this earlier but didn't get a response.
I don't understand it. I never thought she would be snooping on me. She didn't seem to care what I did or who I did it with before.
Think of it this way: she sees you as the enemy right now. An ENEMY. So there are two good reasons I can think of:
1) She is looking for misbehavings that you have that she can use against you 2) She is looking for misbehavings that you have that she can use to make herself feel better about her choices.
Or, she could be nosy.
No way to really know. But I thought my W didnt care about me, and it turns out she was watching my every move for months. So protect yourself.