I was thinking the same thing. She has been using throwing them in my face over everything. When she said that I needed to refinance to keep the kids in their home, I told her that the D was not my decision and that the kids moving from their home was a result of her decision. She is really mad about this.
I don't want the kids to have to move either but I would be an idiot to sign with her right now.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16