Have i been making mistakes too long part 5

[tkdmme]

So, me and kids came home from the family reunion at 6pm last night. The wife welcomed the kids and told them she missed them. She said nothing to me. She later reminded me that she was going to a friend's 40th bday party this coming weekend.

I hate this so much. Im feeling ok with things but im ready for this to be over. I know it will not be over for a long time. At this point I know that I will be ok no matter what happens but im scared of the future either way.

BTW before I left for the reunion she told me that she could afford the house by herself when we refinance. I told her that I would not refinance with her knowing that she is going to divorce me. She was angry and said that I should do it so the kids don't have to move.

Im torn on this. I don't want the kids to have to move but I don't think its smart to refinance with her when she wants a divorce.

I need so help with this. I would appreciate any advise.