Wow Asitis, you have put in writing things that i have been feeling and thinking for a while. I agree in my sitch that if i am acting caring and positive that my W believes it is me trying to win her back or make her rethink. I am just being a good person and would be the same with anyone.
I also have had to stop talking about the reality of the separation as she also sees that as me trying manipulate the situation and make her think she needs me. Not true, but if she is planning on this moving forward so bad, she knows my intentions are to keep the house and a minimum of 50% custody, why hasnt she even looked into finding more employment? right now she teaches a few dance classes a week. she is going to need a lot more work than that even with any spousal support she gets.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
