Mutatio - Thank you so much for sharing the truth with me. You are right, this is not about me at all, and the feelings I have for my wife are to have her happiness in mind. I have told her that I am there for her as always and that she can count me to help her through this time. I make sure to ask how my MIL is doing and how she is feeling.
This not about DB'ing, this is about her as a person I love and care for having the support she needs at such a difficult time. I am here at the capacity that I can be there for her, as a friend if that is what she needs at the moment.
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms