Judy, you said that you must start detaching. I would like to share a thought with you that I read here.
The point was that detaching by itself is difficult. It was suggested that successful detaching is a product of GAL. The idea is that by keeping busy and being involved in activities the LBS detaches.
When I read this it made a lot of sense. In the beginning I was saying "just detach" like a mantra. It did not work well. Then I tried GAL detachment. I have had great success detaching by keeping busy. GAL is an important part of the detachment equation for me.
