Hello I am completely new to this forum. I have been separated for 6 months. Heartbroken about it. My husband appears to do contradictory things: I was away for 5 weeks, when I returned he hugged me for a long long time and said "I missed you." Then after we had been chatting the phone rang and he went to the bedroom to have a chat with one of his Match.com prospects. Then by accident he turned on the computer and saw I had been on this site with the Divorce.busting name-- so now my fear is that he thinks he can "have me in tow" as a back-up and meanwhile pursue his match.com girlfriends. I am sad to say that I saw on his facebook that he is planning to go meet one soon. I feel so miserable. I had been making headway- keeping an appropriate distance, getting on with parts of my life, being upbeat and positive and not needy in our interactions- it was beginning to work I think.. because he really did seem different when I first came home after being gone for 5 weeks. .. but now I feel doomed because he knows I still want the marriage. And I don't know what to do?? Can someone please help me?
