So, almost 2 years ago my appendix burst, it really threw me into a worse depression than I had already had(I've always struggled), I became very negative and critical towards my husband, everything he did was wrong, I made mean comments, etc, I think I was emotionally abusive to a point. He didn't really talk to me about it, would make comments here and there but never sat me down and told me I needed to cut it out, I knew I was doing it but it was like someone else was controlling what I said. I feel terrible now that I've dealt with my issues. Well, he said he has had enough, he's done, exhausted and doesn't feel in love. He's already filed for divorce. At first I tried the begging and pleading and acting all pathetic. It didn't work. I am going to therapy, and am on medication. I'm much better, but now I'm losing my husband. He also has a lot of stress from work, his parents and brother died young and his mother was an alcoholic and suffered from depression. We still live together but he mostly stays in the basement. Is there any hope for us? We use to be very happy and active, now everything is so blah😞
