I agree with many of the words spoken, just want to caution on one point. Don't try to control WAW. You can't do anything to wake her up. You can't do anything to change her. You can't speed up her progress. You can't guarantee that she ever makes progress. The more you try to take action thinking along these lines, the more attached you remain. It's easy to contort your entire life trying to change someone else.
But- you can avoid doing anything to make the situation WORSE. You can avoid doing things that would enable her behavior, and prevent her from going on her own road.
If I had one wish for you it would be that you can let her go on her journey, and that you can begin to go on yours. Not to get her back. But to build the best life for yourself regardless of what she decides to do.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
