That's right. The only way is for her to venture out to the "greener grass" to find out whether it is truly "greener". The vets on the forum will all tell you this: you have no control over what she does. You must release and relinquish any attempt or desire to control her actions. Azzork is usually he||bent on driving home one theme: the majority of WAS's are already gone and it is a miracle to see ANY of these marriage restored. As much as I hate to say it, I would agree with that. Most people do not learn from these types of mistakes until many years down the road when they are sad and miserable people. Some never realize what they've done at all. Having said that, I am wishing you the best in your situation. I can tell you this from reading other people's stories: the faster you drop the rope, get a life, and genuinely let her make her own decisions, the better chance you will have at reconciliation. God be with you sir.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days
