Yes I hear you Rouky. Obviously blood is thicker than water. But there is a difference between enabling and disowning. My mother would not take my side in a situation like this. She has strong moral values. My W parents do not. Anyway, you're right. I have work to do on myself and I can change at least one person: ME! Thanks for your kind words.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days