Hi all. I was rushing earlier and answered quickly because I had a few things to do.

Sunny. I have no doubt if we were to meet in real life we would be great friends. We seem to share a silly sense of humour and I think a meeting and few drinks and we would be giggling like fools very quickly. On the dark chocolate thing , not only would it be acceptable to see you eat more squares than me , it would be taken as a challenge !!!! My two squares limit applies to each glass of red So eight squares = 4 glasses !!

Beagley. Thanks for checking in. I have 4/5 people on here that always support me and I'm very grateful that you have joined that list. When I first joined this forum I couldn't believe that people used to joke on here because I was so distraught. Any newcomers reading please believe life does get better no matter what happens in your sitch.

Sotto. I'm so excited about Wednesday night ! I was obviously joking about the Pirates hat , it's Wednesday and I'm not some weirdo that would wear a Pirates hat on a Wednesday !!!! It will be a Fez of course !!

Jim. I honestly would love to meet you when you a come to Dublin you have been a stalwart supporter with fantastic questions and insights that help me make some sense of what's happened. I know we all believe our sitch is unique and our WAS is different to all the others and I'm no different I'm lucky that EXW still seems to value me and I get no spew I still live in my home , I have my kids and my income. I do love EXW and wish we could be together but as each month passes I do feel the connection between us weaken. I know you have given my sitch lots of thought and I really value your opinion EXW is obviously not happy and I do believe she is lost however I dont see anything changing soon. My life is good and I'm very lucky in so many ways I think it's time I appreciated what. I have

Thanks again everyone who posted and to those that read my thread please believe that things do improve I was with EXW for 2(5 years and I adored her. When I came into. this forum I was at rock bottom and ready to let go of life. I was so lucky to have wonderful people contribute to my sitch with support and advice Get through each hour and then each day and then each week If your on here it's because you loved you WAS and are looking for a way to help save your M or R. You have found a place to help save you first and then maybe your R

Thanks to my friends You have made a huge impact on my life and I'm very grateful.

Take care all. Rd xx