I think it depends on why you are moving there. Are you moving there for you? Is there a great new opportunity you are moving there to take up? If you are moving to enhance your own life, I think that is great.
I agree with you about going dark. She warmed up and then got cold feet, so pursuit wouldn't be a good idea right now.
Goof luck with whatever you decide to do!
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus