The infamous Sandi speaks! Thanks so much for your response. Currently we live in the same city as each other, but on opposite sides, although there is the chance that we could run into one another. I discovered that she was making tentative plans to move to Dallas where the OM lives. My counselor said that if she would do this and make the move to close the distance, it would crack the fog sooner, because it would give her a dose of reality. Unfortunately, she is and has always been the "run home to mommy" type, and is very emotionally (and now financially) dependent upon her parents. Because of this, she may continue living with her parents. Her parents, by the way, have decided that I am solely responsible for the demise of the marriage. Her mother acknowledged that her affair "wasn't right" but is somehow almost justifying her behavior. Ultimately, my W has found a sanctuary for her sin. I'm afraid that her parents will continue to enable her bad behavior indefinitely.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days