My story. My wife and I separated in January. We live in Seattle and I moved back to Chicago. We had to usual going back and forth. Some good days and some bad. In March she told me she wanted a divorce which I agreed to. In Washington state you can file by mail so she sent me the paperwork in July which I sent back.
Fast forward to last week. I texted her on a Sunday night stating that I would be in town for a few days and would she like to meet. Within 5 minutes she responded with a yes. I spent the next three days with her in our old house. We had spats but overall it was great. She told me she loved me, told her co workers I was her husband and stated she never mailed in the divorce papers. I saw them sitting there.
On our last night together I told her I was going to move back to a separate apartment. She did not react well and I went to sleep on the couch. She called me back into the bedroom and slept with her head on my chest.
The next am she told me how much she loved me and missed being my wife. I went to her work and dropped her off. She knew my plans. After I left I got a few texts from her telling me how much she missed me already. After a few days this all dried up.
I sent her flowers and got no response until I told her I was moving out there in a few weeks. She flew off the handle stating she was seeing someone, I am acting like a stalker, she is happy with her life know and she realizes why she wants a divorce. I forgot to mention that this is gonna be her third divorce. We had not seen each other in over 8 months and not talked on the phone in three.
My question is what should I do? I am still planing on moving out there. I will be an hour away and stalking someone is not in my personae. My plan is to lay low and not make any contact. She knows I will be there. If there is any hope I need to be closer and just do my own thing. Her ups and downs are killing me but I saw how she acted when I was around.
