Dwh thank you so much for your response. My thoughts are very similar to yours. I feel like I need to begin moving on. There was absolutely no remorse on her part - almost like she felt like she deserved to do what she did. There was an obvious role that I played in the breakdown of the marriage, but I don't think it justified the affair. I'm just thinking toward the future...if someone can do this once, they can do it again. And next time there might be children involved.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days