Her regular nap time is about 3-6 pm. Usually i get off work about 4. Sometimes I work later that that. But usually she ties the youngest 3 into their rooms for "nap" (the twins don't nap and just destroy their room) (my s1 still naps tho) and then she gives the tablet to my d4 to occupy her abd proceeds to nap herself.
Often lately I come home to a house in complete dissaray with food obviously taken from the cabinets or fridge by the children and not her. All the while she is in the MBR sleeping. Stains on the carpet and toys everywhere (I wonder if she actually does anything while I'm at work but talk to OM) She usually wakes up if I make noise cleaning the mess, but goes right back to sleep after she sees me.
If i ask her if she has done anything with the kids during the day she gets very angry and exclaims that the house was clean an hour ago. So i have stopped asking.
