Glad to hear your soirée went so well, the anti-climax when everyone has gone must have been hard and that's the time to think back over the fun you had during the evening. Remember, if you thoughts get onto something you don't like, gently acknowledge the thought, then let it drift away by thinking about something else that is good in your life.

If you are comfortable that he'll only take what is rightfully his and won't touch stuff that has sentimental value, it might be best that you are out doing something with some buddies, don't be alone otherwise you yourself wondering about what's going on in your home.

Having said that others might say to be there and supervise to ensure nothing goes amiss that you weren't expecting, so I guess it's down to how much trust you have in your husband.


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?