Ok so my wife tells me today that they is no her and the other guy but there is also no her and me. Says she will never trust me again because over this whole time period of her talking to another man I have Tracked her phone, followed her (i didnt) haved her email and facebook. But she was having an affair so I don't see the problem. One thing I don't think I have ever said, I am a private investigator.... This is what I do for a living. she should have known that I would do this. How do I recover from this and get her to trust me again. I want to work this marriage out.