((Lisa)), take a deep breath. Tell us your story, and we will try to help you.
Most of the success stories stop posting after their marriages are pieced back together. Even those who aren't able to save their M, ultimately come through the fire a stronger person, b/c of the intense personal work. Nobody can garantee success, but you won't find a more compassionate, supportive group of people than the DB community.
Weekends are slow, so don't give up and think nobody will respond to you. Send several posts.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
