New - Desperate & Confused, H won't end affair

[Dawn70]

Hi Lisa65 and welcome. I haven't posted on your thread before, but felt compelled to after reading your post. I won't bore you with a lot of details about my sitch, but my XH was pretty dead set on D when I came here and now, almost a year later, we are D.

However, Lisa, let me encourage you. The people here, this forum, the books, the advice, it is ALL good stuff. Though I was not successful at busting my divorce, I'm a much better person for having found this site and receiving such great support.

I just posted recently that though I ended up divorced, I still consider myself a DB success because through this site, I found healing and I found myself again and I'm well on the road to being happy again.

Keep reading and posting and I assure you, you will get some of the best advice ever from the vets around here.