I came across a youtube of Michelle Weiner that described how I got myself in the situation I am in perfectly. She was talking about a wife telling her husband what was wrong with their marriage..things he should stop doing..or start doing for that matter..finally the wife quit telling him..so the husband thought everything was now ok with their marriage. Until one day she tells him she is leaving and filing for divorce. He is stunned..he try's everything to save his marriage..buys self help books..marriage books..everything he can. Michelle explains that he didn't listen to his wife's words..but it took the action of her leaving to get his attention. That's happened to me..I didn't listen..after being told over and over again..it took the action of her wanting to divorce..to really get my attention..but it now seems too late.
