I'm sorry. I know I'm brand new here and I know all of you have been where I am in one way or another. But I am so sad and scared. I bought the DB book last week with great hope. Found this board and have been pouring through it. But the more I read, the more I notice people's signatures and how many people ultimately divorce.

I'm sorry, I'm just so discouraged. I need to know that this stuff CAN work. I know it might not work for me and my marriage, but I'm beginning to feel like I'm fighting a losing battle.

Sorry for my negativity today. It's a down day for me.