It's obvious (I think it is, anyway) that given H's behavior last night, I need to take some sort of stand. I am not in an open marriage, I do not condone my husband having a girlfriend, and I won't have it...
...But at some point today we are obviously going to have to talk.
Why do you feel something needs to be done today? I truly feel trying to change external circumstances so soon is reactive. Is this from God, or is this from YOU? How can you know?
I strongly disagree with Maximus. Everything he suggested was attempting to control WAH.
I DO agree with Azz and others discussing boundaries. I just don't think today's the day it has to happen, because if you take immediate action it is likely to cause more harm than good.
When you think you can't go on like this another day- that's a good indicator you're in no spot to make life changing decisions.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
