Why cold? Can't you limit the words in your emails without being cold? Don't confuse pulling back with coldness.
Sandi, I think maybe he was referring to the emails from his WW to him, not the other way around. That's the way I read it, at least. But you make a valid point. jjal, whether she's cold or not, your replies don't have to come across that way. You can be short and to the point, but polite. Be the bigger man. Be the light house.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.