We've talked about her coming back but she's not sure if she can ever want sex with me again though she loves me.... If she comes home should she share our bed or should one of us have the spare.
Many WW's lose the sexual attraction for the LBH. If you take her back on the condition she sleeps in a separate room, the chances of her having another A (just for the sex) is pretty high, don't you think?
I know you must feel panicked and want desperately to save your family. Ask yourself if you are willing to have a platonic MR.
I believe respect & attraction affects the MR, and if she is not feeling it right now..........would you have any ideas of what you could do? This is where you take a deep heart searching evaluation of yourself and try to see yourself from her viewpoint. Then, set some small, attainable goals to change yourself to be better.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
