Lisa - Not trying to be snide, but you know he's out until 1 with OW and then you want him to come to bed with you?
In my opinion, as long as you are in exactly the same place when he left you, there's no incentive for him to cut this off. He can SAY all he wants to about wanting to save your marriage, but words are easy. Look at his choices. Look at his actions. Do they seem like someone committed to repairing your R?
So it's time to take your focus off of him, off of your R, and start looking inward. Have you read DR? It's time to start GAL (like Skh said). It's time to start doing your own mirror work. As Zues said, take your focus off of your M for a few weeks at least and focus on you.
