running around like a chicken without a head

[Sotto]

Hi Overcom, I think perhaps it is best to try and see him as you would a machanic who has come to do some work on a vehicle at your house. If that were the case, would you hang out with him whilst your kids played out? No - you'd probably just sit nearby with your cup of tea, be playing with the kids or do some yard work.

Maybe you would check in with the mechanic occasionally to say, 'how's it going' but mostly you would be doing your own thing.

So, maybe try and put the fact that he is your H to one side. He's the mechanic now.

Have a good weekend my friend xx