It's been almost a year.

[Sotto]

I agree about the bouncing to the next R, seemingly without a backward glance. But it isn't healthy and it does catch up with you. I understand that most WAS's come to truly regret the choice they made - particularly the guys. But it does take time.

I also believe that in the longer term, many LBS's actually recover better from these sitches. Although we are devastated, if we work through things, rediscover ourselves, grieve, let out our anger, we can move on healthily. However, the WAS may be left with guilt, shame, remorse and regret, which are difficult feelings to work through.

I'm glad if reading my sitch has helped you a little