Hi otw

Been reading your thread and it is hard to let go I am in the same position as you are I am trying to detach and let go

My W is not the lady that I married she has changed and does not have the feelings for me any longer....now the might be w temporary thing or it cold be permenant all I know is right now she does not care about my feelings. You said about your w getting dressed up to go out my w is doing exactly the same thing ....she knows I hate it when she goes out without me but this will not stop her she is not the person that I fell in love with

I read a post from sandi about truly letting go and that if the www senses you are still attached to her she will pull away, I have to let go what I have been trying over past few months has not got her any closer to me

Be strong my friend we will get through this

Take care

Ghost


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.