Everything is going well. I haven't been consumed w/ worry for days. H & I getting along well... Bob of us in good spirits.
We're setting up our tent. I hear his phone ding the fb messenger ding. I tell him. He looks at its then he says nothing. A minute later I ask. He tells me a girls name who he works with.
This particular girl I know he had been friends w/ on fb in the past. I know he has had conversations w/ her (saw her number a few times on our phone bill when h thought I did my have access. I saw that he searched for her name like 6 times on fb all in one day.
So he tells me she is thanking him for helping her out w/ something at work. I asked him if they didn't talk to each other on the phone. He said no. A few minutes later I asked again in a different way & he said not that he remembered. I then told him I'd found her number on the phone bill. He didn't say anything but later when I walked by his cell phone was out in the grass like he was putting it out there for me to look at. I walked on by.
Frankly I am a little exasperated... I feel worn out with this ... Why is he having fb conversations w/ someone he is not even fb friends w/ & lying to me about having phone conversations w/ her. After he has cheated on me w/ a co-worker. Seems like some unhealthy boundaries to me... Am I wrong?
How to spend the rest of the weekend... I do not know.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15