Originally Posted By: JudyL
Thanks for your posts...I really find them encouraging. I am trying hard to refocus, and you've given me some great pointers!


Hang in there Judy! I cope by calling it selfish wife syndrome and by reminding myself that it really isn't about me. Oh yeah, I wasn't perfect, and we needed some help, but I didn't run away from home.

So, take a deep breath, one with your belly, and then tell yourself you will be okay. It may feel like you are lying to yourself, but you will start believing it if you can detach. You got this!


Me - Mid 40's
W - Mid 40's
Married 20
No kids
BD - 7/2015
ILYB...
Moved out 2 days later
Suspect EA