Zeus, you are so right! I should not have shared that thought. I didn't intend to force my husband to leave, I just needed him to leave me alone and give me some space....he refused to do it. I thought it would help if I moved his things out of our room, so he couldn't constantly come in and badger me. I don't know what he thought, he wasn't sleeping here anyways, but I never intended to get the response I did. I seem to be dealing with a teenager.
I would give anything to have him here right now...ignoring me....but at least here.
I need to retract the statement, "make him decide." BAD IDEA!!!! BAD. BAD. Time is a great gift.