Zeus, you are so right! I should not have shared that thought. I didn't intend to force my husband to leave, I just needed him to leave me alone and give me some space....he refused to do it. I thought it would help if I moved his things out of our room, so he couldn't constantly come in and badger me. I don't know what he thought, he wasn't sleeping here anyways, but I never intended to get the response I did. I seem to be dealing with a teenager.

I would give anything to have him here right now...ignoring me....but at least here.

I need to retract the statement, "make him decide." BAD IDEA!!!! BAD. BAD. Time is a great gift.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti