Minor update:

Saw W today for lunch. We discussed the new job. Prior to all of this I have not made much money. I work hard, and I work two jobs, but it doesn't add up to a lot. I have made enough to get by. With the new job, it is a significant quality of life increase. I told W the door was still open and that I would like to share it with her. Pursuing, yes. It felt right though. I have no intention of constantly pointing it out, but I look forward to money not being as big of a deal as it once was.

Anyhow, the mindset here was to plant the seed. I hope that I did it correctly. Conversation went well enough and we spent a fair amount of our time discussing her newest writing project.

It has already happened and I won't condemn myself for it, but does a conversation like that come across in the wrong way?


M: 38 W: 37
T: 20 M: 19
Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12
BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out)
PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM)
Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015