I'm now in panic mode. I am certain that my freak out last night and setting a boundary today drove him off for good. I've been reading the boards all day, and everything seems so hopeless. But he just wouldn't leave me alone about divorce...I haven't even wrapped my mind around the fact that life as I knew it was over. The constant criticism has me feeling like I'm just a failure. There were truth nuggets in his tirades. I don't know what to do.