Lisa, I'm in the same situation. It's awful, Isn't it? I've always trusted my husband. Even when people pointed out that some of his controlling behaviors were putting me at risk (like opening a private bank account, forcing me to have to ask for money) I always believed he was doing what was best for my family.
Now I have no money of my own, there are other women, and I NEED a lawyer. I set down one boundary today, told him I was moving his things out of master bedroom. He left me....told me so via a text saying, "I'm gone."
Falling apart on my end. He used to be kind, gentle, caring. I don't even know him anymore. He doesn't want to work on marriage. He will be happy once he gets rid of me. Another woman helped him see that.
I keep praying for peace, but I really want to go to sleep and never wake up from this nightmare.
There is so much more....just wanted to let you know I feel your pain.
