Two things my WW said at the end, after the A started of course. 1) I feel like I am always walking on eggshells 2) I feel like you are my dad and I am your daughter and have to follow your rules.
It is just crazy to hear a woman's perspective that is going through what my WW was apparently going through. Of course, this was not the only issue in our marriage, but is was one that I am sure led to where we are today.
I really hope I can offer help that will fix this. One day he is going to realize what he did to contribute to the breakdown of his marriage and be very sad. I would imagine the first step will be him recognizing he has a problem. The approach to make this happen is going to be very delicate I would imagine.
You are doing great! Thank you for not giving up!
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."