Same here, she claims she never wanted to see me hurt even though I told her that that hurts me.

So what can we do?
they don't care they are hurting us, even if we tell them
they have 0 remorse
they have 0 compassion

Detach. Love them from a distance!

M35 W33 S14 D12
M14
ILYBNILWY 07/14
BD 7/14
S 5/15

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future"