So W calls me to let me know that she locked the MBR and that she has the key, but won't be coming home as she is going out to dinner and a movie. I was caught of guard, and said "Oh, a date" to which she responds with "I will let you live in your head"; I quickly responded with "Ok, well have a great time" and her response was "I plan to".

I really need to work on not asking these types of questions and showing an upbeat happy EM...

Well, means I still have detaching to do, and have to continue to GAL. I will start visualizing different scenarios to which I can respond with a calm and cool demeanor.


M: 34 W: 33
S: 7
S: 14 months
BD: 6/2015
Separation: 6/2015
Back and Forth between Home and Moms