My 180 was shutting off my xbox and phone games and trying to focus on her and the kids.
And any time I bring up anythong like that (turning off her phone since she is using it for OM, D or custody of kids after) she gets very angry and starts yelling "well do it, file, I'm ready"(D) or "ill just go get a phone on my mothers plan, she already offered"(phone) or "I wont do split custody, Im moving out if the state" (kids)
And no as it stands my GAL is 0. I sit at home do cjores and try to watch Game of Thrones until O cant take it anymorr and go bug her
And my only goal since BD has been to try and save my M. I know it is out of ny hands now, but it is so hard to leave it be.