Time to let go......how?

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will do.
had an interesting evening with everything last night. not long ago i gave one of her best friends a job at one of my restaurants on a managament level. I knew today was her bday. last night while we were both working she tells me " i want you to know that I invited you to my bday dinner". I told her that W had not mentioned anything about it or even her going. She then also proceeded to tell me that her and W's other best friend are on my side in all of this. I was kind of shocked to hear her say this. I told her thank you but at this point i have exhausted efforts and just need to be able to let go.

Later the wife and kids came in to eat and the wife brought up the dinner with no mention of me going. Just to make sure that i was able to be with kids. She does not know that i knew about it.
Later on the friend conitued to tell me she told W that she likes me and would hang out with me as friends and doesnt care if she doesnt like it. very strange to hear.

Now all of her family and friends have told me the same thing about how they feel on the S. all on my side.

Also i found out she hasnt gone further with trying to meet with person to help with Separation agreement after i gave her contact info. My immediate fortune telling or mind reading begins to think she is seeking out an atty.

all for now.

I appreciate all of the help and looking to check in on some other threads soon.