My WW loves her OOM

[dwh15]

It is a difficult concept to grasp, that leaving WW alone is for the best, especially when you have a history of that as a problem. The reality is that the dynamics of the sitch have changed. You coming after WW isn't going to do anything but push her further awayaway. She doesn't want you to chase her. It's going to hurt you, hurt your chances of a R, and just make your W resent you even more. It will be hard to stick to this at first, but it's what is best for you and gives your M the best shot. Getting out of the house is a good idea. If you can meet some friends or family, even better. Try to do something you really enjoy or get around some people you can open up with. I've found that talking with others really helps me not focus on my own problems. Hang in there. It's a long journey ahead and you are just taking the first steps.