My WW loves her OOM

[dwh15]

You played a part in the breakdown of your M but always remember that there are 2 people involved. You can own your half, but the rest is on your W. She made vows to you on your wedding day to love, honor, and cherish til death, but she bails out when things get a little rocky, while you are still trying.

Yes, your W is a WW, by definition. She has checked out, moved on and does not want you as a H right now. That doesn't mean she will feel that way forever. Do you think that she married you years ago, but didn't truly love you and planning to hang on just until someone better came along? Of course not. How she feels today doesn't mean she will feel the same next week, next month, or next year. For now though, you need to give her the space she is asking for. Quit trying to be her H. She fired you from that job. Focus on you, and detach from WW. Nobody knows what the future holds, but you need to take actions now to make sure that you will be OK regardless of what WW does.