Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart

[dejavu2]

H called the other night... first time he has initiated conversation with me in a whole - however he wanted something. First he was upset that he was having a hard time communicating with the kids due to technology and kids not being available. Then he wanted me to sort some money so that he could buy a car. It was very hard for him to speak with me in an open and honest way - all very odd.

I am sitting on my hands today to not get involved in his car purchase. He is terrible at bureaucratic things as always thinks things should be simple, which they never are. He is living/working in NJ, got a drivers license from NH and trying to purchase a car from a private seller in NC. It all sounds like a bit of a paperwork, bureaucratic process logistical nightmare. Any way, I am trying desperately not to get involved, but hate to see him make such complex decisions with such large amounts of money.

(continuing to sit on hands.......)