H has started an affair 2

[Sotto]

Hi Anna, I'm sorry you saw this. Even though we 'know' there are some lies and our S may not be where they said they are, it is hard to 'see' stuff. It always knocked me for six when that happened.

What I would also say is social media brings much pain to people on the forum. The more you can shut down/not look in that regard, the better.

Hmm, it's a decision to make whether you raise this with him. I guess the boundary issues may be - You're lying. Stop with the lies. It's not appropriate to post pics like this (alongside family ones..)

Also, are you protecting yourself and the kids financially? My H spent '000s visiting AP (who was long haul distance at the time.) Luckily we had that money to spend...but if not.

Don't do anything until you have heard from someone who knows more than me.

Any vets out there able to help Anna???