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[Missmeg]

Oh Diana it's so painful. I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm pretty new to the situation myself, so I don't have any great words of wisdom. I guess just go back to the 37 newcomer rules, you know the GAL, 180, the detatch stuff.

But it hurts and it's hard. I really empathize with you on his not being with you when you needed a husband by your side. This June my 18-year-old graduated high school. This son has been a victim of parental alienation, completely brainwashed against me by his birth father. ( he is the only one of my four children who does not live with me. He has been under his father's care since he was 12, because he believed every word his father told him about me. Anyway, a super painful situation for me to have essentially lost contact with one of my children). So my son told me he did not want me to show up at his graduation ceremony, and if he caught site of me there he would not walk at all. The day of graduation, I was an emotional wreck. My husband was unaware that it was even happening. My dad, bless his heart, sat with me through the day and was my shoulder to cry on. That's the day I really needed my husband and he totally failed me. So I get how much of a blow it is when you are weak and worried about medical issues and he's not by your side where he should be. (((Hugs))