I honestly don't think H is certain he wants D either, but the A is getting in the way. He just keeps saying the same thing. "I don't see how we can get past this, do you?" It is the question at the end that causes pause.
Just curious if he keeps saying this and you dont want a D why you didn't respond with a yes I do see a way past this?
Actually, I have said yes there is on multiple occasions. If there is a will, there is a way. People do it all of the time.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015