He's escalated things so quickly because he fails to understand that an EA and a PA amount to the same thing. He wants to do the deed, so to speak, but since his first wife cheated on him, he believes he is being a better person by divorcing first.

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti