I had a few freak outs like that before I found DB. They didn't make anything better, but I think sometimes that we need to forgive ourselves for reacting as normal human beings. If I were you I'd find the best L I could to protect my finances and learn my rights, then I'd go No contact. He sure has escalated things quickly. Your kids are adults, they will figure things out without you saying a word. I am sorry for your sitch. Keep posting and reading, I think you will get good advice here.
