When I told him I wanted him to leave, he was outraged. "Not fair." How on earth can you reason with someone who is only concerned with themselves?
You can't and don't try to reason with a WS. You choose your personal boundaries, lay them out clearly, then enforce them. You need to be focused on yourself right now, and take whatever actions are needed to protect yourself, including consulting with an attorney. It may be hard to accept but right now, your H is your enemy. Find your inner strength and show him you are not a doormat.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.
